Wednesday, September 9, 2020

Good and Evil in Marriage

By Jill Krueger Wagner

I doubt that anyone would disagree with the statement that there are two opposing forces in the world: forces for good and forces for evil. However, some might argue with the thought that those two forces each have an architect behind them.

There probably isn’t a husband or wife alive who, at one time or another, thought that their spouse was acting just plain evil (or stupid, insensitive, asinine, etc.). Usually when we’ve been hurt or disappointed our mind goes toward the negative and nobody can hurt or disappoint like a spouse.

It would be disturbing to actually think that some evil beings were behind a spouse’s actions that upset us, but that is exactly what the Bible says:

“For our struggle in not against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms.” Ephesians 6:12

Who is pulling the strings of your spouse’s actions? Who gains when spouses fight? The hate-filled one who loves disunity, fighting, and arguing. The thief who wants to steal your happiness, the Devil.

Who loses? Husbands, wives, and God.

If those rulers, authorities, powers, and evil forces can keep you focused on your mate’s behavior, they have a good chance of dividing you.

If, on the other hand, God can get you to “love one another,” “be kind one to another, tenderhearted forgiving one another,” He can bind you together with love. God wins and so do you and your spouse.

You see Jesus said “The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy; I have come that they may have life, and have it to the full.” John 10:10 God wants you to have a good marriage.

Remember who your REAL enemy is. Also remember that “a good marriage is made up of two good forgivers.”

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